Which, in turn, meant a strict "no sweating" rule.
Which, in turn, meant "stay-inside-funtime."
So we played way too many video games, watched a few movies, got on the floor to play "marble war," in which one tries to knock down the other's army men w/ just a marble. It's probably more fun than it sounds, & I can tell you all the rules if you're interested.
Anyway . . .
We bought a really cool box full o' puzzles, Disney-style & put a few of 'em together.
So, last night before we watched Diary of a Wimpy Kid, we decided to put together the 500-piece Buzz & Woody puzzle, the biggest of 'em all.
Look at these photos:

You can't really get a good look here, but just believe me, they are pretty small pieces--500 for a puzzle that measures about 18" x 10."
Notice anything interesting?
How about here?

Detail of Buzz:

Anyway . . . after about a 1/2-hour I realized that every durn piece is the exact same shape. I mean, there were minor variations, but the same size, the same "2-outies" north & south & "2 innies" east & west (or vice versa). Look back & the photos.
Guess what? This makes a puzzle pretty durn hard to do . . . except for the "edge" pieces & by color, there's no real way to tell 'em apart. You can't just say "I need a piece w/ 3 prongs" or whatever, cuz, I'll repeat, "they are all the same shape."
Frustration followed my realization. Then I simply saw it as a better challenge.
SCHOOL-TYPE TEACHABLE MOMENT ALERT!!!
I note that we makes these discoveries every day, that things that seemed pretty easy are actually difficult. Every once in a while, it goes the other way, but it seems things usually just get more & more challenging.
& we rise to the challenge.
We sit back, take a deep breath, & attack that durn puzzle with a new outlook. We take a look in the mirror & prepare ourselves to work a little harder if necessary.
The renowned author Michael Jordan once title a book I Can't Accept Not Trying.
One of my favorite fictional characters once said, "Do or do not. There is no 'try.'"
Heck, even Woody from the photo below says, "There's a snake in my boot!"
Well, maybe that last one doesn't fit, but the others do.
The 5 of us worked on it (don't tell Cedric, but honesty means I must say he did very little).
(& Aodhan put in only a few pieces.)
(& newly-7 Finbar was more into his Legos.)
(But they all hung around, & we had fun.)
So, Linda & I worked for a while, finished about 10 minutes later than we wanted to. We high-fived as a family, watched some Wimpy Kid, ate some birthday cake, had a good time.
(Yes, this is "old-people" family-time fun.)
LESSON: take the challenge. Make up new challenges when there are none. If you finish 10 minutes late, work harder the next time.
Yeah, life is all about adaptation, acceptance, & a few other words that begin with the letter "A," & this blog entry has taken on a life of its own, but I hope you got something from it.
Completion:

Be cool.